This question has been answered with millions ways. However, how many people out there still looking for their door, which opens to happiness?

Lucky for me when I have got the key to make myself happy. Just let you know something about my life before we get into “happiness topic”. Also, I just came here in the United States 3 years ago, so if you see any of my grammar or writing mistakes, please tell me, i will appreciate that.

I have been growing up without knowing who my father is and the only story that I have always heard about him is that when my mom got pregnant, he said that if I had been a boy, he would have taken me; however, I was born to be a girl. He left me and my mom before she gave birth me.

Now i have to live so far away from my mom and the people that I have known for eighteen years. One of my aunts, the one I loved the most past away a year after I came here.

Just because I didn’t cry at the airport, I was told that I’m heartless, cold and don’t have sentiment. This didn’t make sense at all? Why did I have to cry?

Those things above kind of describe a little bit about me. I love myself more than anything else. That is my first thing to be happy. You have to learn how to love yourself before anybody else does. Ask yourself what you good at and keep improving it. I’m good at jokes even though someone said that my jokes are stupid. I work really hard and sometime I reward myself with things I like. Nobody treat yourself better than you do.

I want to be respected so I respect others. Giving and taking is what I try to practice everyday. I want to make people laugh because a smile is a prettiest thing in life.

I don’t want to gossip behind someone’s back because if you do that you are breaking the relationships and even worse that you let people to have chance to say something behind you too.

I don’t care what they say about me because they don’t know me. I know that I can’t not make everyone satisfied so I am not trying to do that. If people love me they will love my true personality, not the one do things that myself don’t like just to make others “play” with me.

These are some of the ways make me happy. When I remember some more, I will get back to you later.